hhmoore
tired & cranky shadow
so i can us pissing as much as i want and if its not why did you us pi$$ing
I wasn't able to get online yesterday, due to other responsibilities, but I wanted to take a moment to answer this, since it was about me.
The answer is quite simple. When posting online, I try to be mindful of the breadth of the membership and the varying degrees of tolerances they might have. The fact that I might think nothing of dropping an f-bomb in casual conversation with friends does't mean I would include one in my post ANYWHERE online...and people that have been around for a while can attest to the fact that it is rare for me to curse even in ***HELL***, where it is allowed (heck, it's practically expected there).
So, getting back to your question, I type pi$$ing because I am not inclined to use that word in a general admission online forum. Ultimately, our language reflects who we are, and how we want to be perceived. I know the arguments about "being real", and being the same online as in person; but I look at it differently. By posting online, I am putting myself on display. I choose not to display myself in a negative manner, so I am mindful of my word selection....just as I would be if I was giving a lecture to my peers, or doing a fun presentation to a group of kids. Should I, therefore, choose a different phrase and eliminate the issue? Perhaps....but a pi$$ing contest is a pi$$ing contest - probably the clearest possible term, and there isn't a good, easy substitute.