The seller clearly said in her ad that it was only a possible female. Any buyer that actually read the ad would have known right away it wasnt a guarantee. The buyer was the first one who broke the rules so hes not blameless and doesnt deserve to get off scott free
And the seller consistently referred to the lizard as female. It seems like it'd be common sense, in order to avoid a blow up of confusion, to ensure the buyer was fully aware. Didn't someone early in the thread say that they also missed the "poss" in the ad? Then the seller reinforced the misperception instead of clearing it up. Possibly because it could have led to a missed sale? Which is
exactly what happened.
My, I should quit my day job, since it seems like easy bank to make a 150 bucks by letting a customer be misled, then crying TOS. I wouldn't even need to carry any real stock.
It would have been so simple for the seller to avoid this whole fiasco by demonstrating a bit more integrity.
I could give you an example. Two years ago, I purchased the male corn snake in my photo. He was listed as anery motley het hypo, possibly tessera. Why possibly? Because the motley gene mixed with tessera can make a mess of determining with 100% accuracy that the snake, in fact, is actually tessera (stripe/stripe muddled this more than motley/motley or motley/stripe, in my experience in discussions with other corn keepers). When I made my excited inquiry into purchasing him, the breeder made it absolutely,
abundantly clear that she could not guarantee his tessera gene (I will do a breeding trial with him to verify this myself in the future). She even expressed remorse in even mentioning the possibility, but did so because she felt full disclosure was the most correct course.
I see a strong parallel in my exchange and purchase to this gecko sexing issue.
The main difference is my seller disclosed and made sure I was fully aware that she could be wrong.
This seller did not. And she banked $150 for her "troubles."
