Glad to hear you got some of your money back Robert!
On that note, I'm frankly flabbergasted with this whole thread. I don't really even have the right words to explain how shocked I am at Catharine and her cronies' behavior and attitudes.
On the issue of "Oh, he waited too long soooo....screw him", frankly this blew my mind. If an animal is represented as one sex and turns out to be another REGARDLESS of time frame, it's misrepresentation of the animal. It's not like a female ball can just sprout hemipenes whenever she pleases. As a seller, you should always stand by your animals and if it means taking them back when you messed up and didn't sex them AT ALL, it means doing just that. Also, the "I can't take them back because there isn't enough room at my place" is also flat out bull. You get new animals in all the time according to you! Three BPs really don't take up that much space. You just didn’t want to pay return shipping and a refund to him because I’m sure you had your eye on other animals or a camera or WHATEVER. And according to you, male normal ball pythons are soooo easy to sell for $50 on Craigslist, so why not take them back in and do just that? Why force Robert to fix your mistake by sitting on these animals until someone buys them? Bottom line, you misrepresented animals, you should have taken care of it when it occurred but you didn't and whether you like to believe it or not, you definitely put Robert on the back burner which is beyond disrespectful.
And don't even get me started on the "Ohhh well, that pastel breeder male was just SUCH a good deal I couldn't pass it up even though I could have easily paid you off with the money I got from selling my Uro for it"......Are....are you kidding me? Do you know how utterly selfish and dumb that sounds? 'Appalled' wouldn't even begin to describe how that little number made me feel, I can only imagine how Rob must have felt when he read that. That Uro money should have gone directly to Robert, no questions asked, no matter how good of a "deal" that pastel male was. Would you do the same with an overdue credit card? Or a court order? Or with anything else that had actual consequences to you? “Sorry Mr. Judge, I couldn't pay this month because there was just such a GOOD DEAL on this snake I've had my eye on! I’ll get ya next time!”
The fact that you could get away with not paying him without any consequences means and you decided to do so speaks volumes about the kind of person you are. Oh, but wait…there ARE consequences, just not as apparent and in your face as a late fee or a warrant for your arrest akin to what you might get if this was a debt to a court system or a credit card company. You got yourself a ruined reputation! I’m sure I’m not the only one that has put you on the “Do not do business with” list. How’s that new camera working out for you by the way?
Also, you should probably keep your cronies out of your business screw ups next time too. All they did was make fools of themselves and you. Kindly telling them to shut up in the very beginning of this thread would have been a pretty wise decision.
Honestly, I think you should keep this as a hobby and even then, take a break from selling any animals because your business ethics are TERRIBLE. If you can’t see that everything I've just posted is truth and take some serious steps to improve your priorities and morals than I don’t suggest getting any further into this business because you will be severely disappointed by what people expect of you as a business owner.