cat..... this is what im talking about. that was not aimed at you or anyone in particuliar. thankyou CAT and all who had something decent to say. im just sayin there are alot of people who come to this section of the forum for entertainment. to stir shit up etc etc.
If a person in a situation such as yours were to simply come here, make an honest and heartfelt apology, and make things right....there's not much people can stir.
When someone comes in throwing insults, well....it's just throwing gasoline on a match you've already lit, and you may end up blowing up those who stood by you as well as those who didn't.
Anyway....I hope you do make things right. Best of luck to all involved.