I generally am the type that doesn't have nice things to say about men especially considering some of the men I have in my life... but I do have to say that I know of a few really exceptional men that have their family and/or child(ren)'s best interest at heart.
It's those few good men that I know that make me realize that not all men are scum bags... (I can count on one hand how many of these really good men I know)
So to the men that provide for their families, help support their family and their household (even if it means flipping burgers or making minimum wage to contribute something until you get a great paying job), to the men that work and pay child support for their children and are actively involved in their children's lives even if they are NOT the custodial parent... to the ones going through a divorce but still looking out for what is in the best interest of their child even if it means they be a little bit miserable and unhappy for a short period... I applaud you... and wish that there were more men like you in the world... instead of the deadbeats or the lazy jerks that would rather sit at home and do nothing and let other people support their children....
You are absolutely wonderful men!!!
And to the women that find a good man like the ones described above but cheat on them or leave them or take advantage of them and treat them like crap... you really will regret it one day when you realize how great you had it before and how you have it now or will have it in the future... Please take a step back and look at what you have and compare it to what others have... whether it be the mom who gets no child support because the biological father is a POS that lives in another state and doesnt have a job or has been to jail, or the dad that has nothing to do with his kids, or the boyfriend/husband that doesnt contribute to the household... and when you are working a part time job (if you even work at all) don't complain when there isn't any extra money for you to do anything... espicially when you went to school and have a degree for a specific field and you don't even work PART TIME in that field.... seriously....
It's those few good men that I know that make me realize that not all men are scum bags... (I can count on one hand how many of these really good men I know)
So to the men that provide for their families, help support their family and their household (even if it means flipping burgers or making minimum wage to contribute something until you get a great paying job), to the men that work and pay child support for their children and are actively involved in their children's lives even if they are NOT the custodial parent... to the ones going through a divorce but still looking out for what is in the best interest of their child even if it means they be a little bit miserable and unhappy for a short period... I applaud you... and wish that there were more men like you in the world... instead of the deadbeats or the lazy jerks that would rather sit at home and do nothing and let other people support their children....
You are absolutely wonderful men!!!

And to the women that find a good man like the ones described above but cheat on them or leave them or take advantage of them and treat them like crap... you really will regret it one day when you realize how great you had it before and how you have it now or will have it in the future... Please take a step back and look at what you have and compare it to what others have... whether it be the mom who gets no child support because the biological father is a POS that lives in another state and doesnt have a job or has been to jail, or the dad that has nothing to do with his kids, or the boyfriend/husband that doesnt contribute to the household... and when you are working a part time job (if you even work at all) don't complain when there isn't any extra money for you to do anything... espicially when you went to school and have a degree for a specific field and you don't even work PART TIME in that field.... seriously....